Crossroads and Questions

Have you ever been at a crossroad where you just don't know what to do?? Well, yep, that's where I'm at. There are so many things in my life that I just can't seem to figure out. I have questions constantly consuming me! Where's my life going? What am I made to do? Honestly, I'm sick and tired of my job. Don't get me wrong, I'm SOO thankful that I have a job and am making it. But, let's be real, I'm almost 23 years old and feel like I'm about to go through a "midlife crisis"!! I'm unmarried and may not ever become married, which is fine if that's what GOD wants for me... but does God really want me to be unmarried and still have a life of blahness?? I kick myself for not going to school... I could be done right now and probably have a good job w/some facility working as a medical coder. Sometimes I still want to go back to school, but, I'm scared. I don't want to get into debt and I'm scared that once I actually go I won't go for the right thing and I'll be stuck with all this debt doing something I absolutely abhor! I don't feel led  to go to school and the most important thing for me is to be in God's will. Some how just sitting here doing what I'm doing I don't feel like I'm quite in his will. I don't want to be idle... There are so many things I would like to do with my life. I would like to help people and make them feel important. I would like to do more than just get up every morning, go to work, come home, do a few things and then go to bed, only to get up the next morning to start the same thing over again. I would like for my life to be fufilling..to have SOME kind of meaning. I don't thinkt it's God's will that we just do and do without any kind of real outcome. At times I feel like I only go to work to pay for things..things I don't necessarily need. I could be doing so much with my life being that I'm single, still at home and have no kids. However, I don't know where to even start. I'm just so confused right now and need guidance. I know I probably need to pray and seek God more fervantly about it all. It's just very overwhelming sometimes. As I'm writing this I'm reminded of a song that says "Stand still and let God move. Standing still is hard to do. When you feel you have reached the end, he'll make a way for you. Stand still and let God move." (Sometimes it's easier said than done! huh?..) I wonder often if I'm facing these things because I've previously acted on impulse and this is the consequence of those actions. If I would have cleaved to Jesus and diligently sought his will then maybe I would be closer to his will now and not facing so many questions...only God knows..